An open letter to Oprah
May 11, 2009 280 Comments

@Oprah, don’t watch show but nice Duke speech. take own advice and make difficult decision to pull support from mccarthy, save lives. kthxbi
And now the long version:
Dear Oprah,
I have to confess, I have never watched more than a few minutes of your show. Probably not the best way to start a letter to you, but I want to be honest. And the truth is, I think you’re making a terrible mistake.
Last weekend, I spent more time listening to and watching you than in the rest of my life combined. My family and I were sitting in the Duke stadium, looking down on the thousands of giddy graduates (including my older brother), the esteemed faculty in their rainbow regalia, and the charming, if a bit over the top, fake castle festooned with flags representing the different academic schools. I had no idea you were the commencement speaker until the student speaker, Robert Paul Jones, pretended to get a cell phone call from Parking & Transportation services about your limo double-parked in front of the chapel.
Having only seen you in short commercial clips and on the cover of your magazine, I wasn’t sure what to expect from your speech. I was pleasantly surprised. You were warm and funny, your voice clear and yet dressed with feeling, and I am sure you meant every word. Over the course of those 20 or 30 minutes, I developed a great respect for you as a talented speaker.
But I couldn’t leave the stadium wholly inspired by you, as I’m sure many others did. To me, it is clear that a significant number of people look up to you, and trust your advice and judgment. That is why it is such a huge mistake for you to endorse Jenny McCarthy with her own show on your network.
Surely you must realize that McCarthy is neither a medical professional nor a scientist. And yet she acts as a spokesperson for the anti-vaccination movement, a movement that directly impacts people’s health. Claims that vaccines are unsafe and cause autism have been refuted time after time, but their allure persists in part because of high-profile champions for ignorance like McCarthy. In fact, ten of the thirteen authors of the paper that sparked the modern anti-vaccination movement retracted the explosive conclusions they made due to insufficient evidence. Furthermore, it is now clear that the study’s main author, Andrew Wakefield, falsified data to support these shaky conclusions.
We have come close to eradicating life-threatening and crippling illnesses because of vaccines, but are now struggling to prevent outbreaks because of parents’ philosophical beliefs that vaccines are harmful. Realize this: when someone chooses not to vaccinate their child, they aren’t just putting their own child at risk, they are putting everyone else around them at risk. Diseases with vaccines should normally be of little concern even to unprotected individuals due to herd immunity – with the majority of the population immune, unprotected individuals are less likely to come into contact with the pathogen. Unfortunately, herd immunity disintegrates as fewer people are vaccinated, putting everyone who hasn’t yet been vaccinated at greater risk for infection. Now, the rates of infection by diseases for which we have safe and effective vaccines are climbing, thanks to anti-vaccination activists like Jenny McCarthy.
You reach millions of people everyday and your words and endorsements carry an incredible amount of weight. If you say to buy a certain book, people will buy it. If you do a segment on a certain charity, people will contribute. And if you say that what Jenny McCarthy is saying has merit, people will believe you.
As your speech drew to a close on Sunday, you mentioned that you still make difficult decisions from time to time. You told us about a show where you had the exclusive first interview with the author of a prominent book on the Columbine tragedy. Despite days of promos and confirmed broadcast schedules, you decided to cancel the show at the last minute because it had a negative energy, and you didn’t want to be responsible for sending that dark energy out into the world. You didn’t want to be responsible for someone seeing that show, feeling that dark energy, and going out to commit another Columbine. You said that you followed your gut to make the right decision.
Maybe your gut is being silent on this one, so let me speak up on its behalf. You have another decision to make. Pull your support from Jenny McCarthy and her platform of anti-vaccination. Because while the Columbine segment raised the specter of potential future tragedy, anti-vaccination propaganda is causing more and more people – mostly children – to fall sick and die from preventable illness as I write this. Jenny McCarthy could be considered responsible for a significant number of these; you can imagine what might happen if you give her influence over your audience of millions.
So Oprah, I hope you take my letter, and the well-intentioned if sometimes harsh criticisms from many others in the blogosphere, to heart. Because even though I still don’t watch your show, others do, and they listen to you. Probably not the best way to end a letter to you, but I want to be honest.
Shirley
P.S. My dad – for whom English is his second language – calls you “Op-er-a.” Isn’t that cute?
Update 5/18/09: Due to much reposting on Twitter, Facebook, and other blogs (including Bad Astronomy!), this post already has over 5,000 views! Small potatoes compared to many blogs but it’s a big deal for this one. :) Thank you all for the unexpected, enthusiastic, and civil responses. Now the question is – what should we do next? What is the best way to leverage whatever momentum we might build to get Oprah to pay attention?
Orac has a lengthy post dissecting Jenny McCarthy’s recent “scientific” video, “Biomedical Treatment 101″.
It’s amazing to me that people still think Jenny McCarthy is “anti-vaccine”. I can’t count how many times she has stated SHE IS NOT ANTI-VACCINATION! For some children the schedule MAY be problematic. But again, she has stated many times she believe vaccines are necessary- it’s the USA’s schedule that is in question. DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE YOU WRITE OPRAH A LOOOONG LETTER that begins and ends with false data. By the way, children with Autism are treated and it’s because of early intervention. It’s really sad you don’t see it. AND, there are plenty of doctors out there helping Autistic children recover. DOCTORS! That’s where Jenny McCarthy gets most of her information from.
If vaccines caused my son’s Asperger’s, then how would Jenny explain its appearance in my brothers-in-law, their grandfather, and the generations prior that received no vaccinations?
I truly hope Oprah considers your letter, as well as to the many voices of Autistics who aren’t looking to be cured in the first place.
They are saying the cause is environmental. Even the pro vaxxer doctors will admit there is a very small change a vaccination might cause ASD. But that the odds of that are worth the risk considering the lives vaccines save.
could a family genetic grouping be more suspectible to Asperger’s? It might.
Great letter! :)
Hope some good will come from it – I’m spreading it as far as I can, hope others do the same.
PS – you might want to fix the typo in “Yours truly” :)
The “Yours turly” is a reference to the book “Yours turly, Shirley.” I’m guessing the author has decided to remain anonymous.
http://www.amazon.com/Yours-Turly-Shirley-Paperbacks-Paperback/dp/0590428098
autism can be CURED? well fuck me there’s a stupidism if ever I heard one.
A genetic disease with environmental factors!
I can’t be bothered beating you with any of the training I’ve had on this subject (professionally I mean) or any of the research I’ve done in my line of work, as well as for my son.
carry on….
They mean ASD. Some of the disorders in it can be helped. Especially if caught earlier on. You’re a professional? You’re off target by lumping ASD as autism and saying it’s all genetic. The effort has changed since you were educated on it.
YOU are not up-to-date on the research. ALL the current research from the top scientists researching ASD indicates *genetic* factors as the cause of ASD.
Vaccines have NOTHING to do with ASD. Jenny McCarthy is doing as severe disservice to the public health of this nation (and anyone else stupid enough to take their medical advice from someone who takes their clothes off for money). “More green vaccines” is a smokescreen. She is anti-science, anti-vaccine, and is doing more damage than she will ever be able to repair. She was less dangerous when she thought her son was an “indigo child.” Remember that?
My son received all his vaccinations on schedule. Thankfully, our preschool requires all the kids to be up-to-date on their vaccinations as well. This isn’t the case in public schools here.
RT’d. Not that i have many followers. Nice letter though.
Wow… well written and eloquent, and cited too! Fantastic letter.
Thank you for writing this letter. I really hope she reads it and actually thinks about it. It is really scary that people like Jenny McCarthy have the power they do. If only people like Oprah were to put their amazing financial and media capabilities to better use. Well done!
What a lovely and well written letter.
I pledge to do what I can to assure that it seen by many – if not Ms. Winfrey herself.
Thank you for taking the time on such an important issue.
Pingback: RSS agregator » Blog Archive » An Open Letter To Oprah
We should try not to forget that it’s not only about the vaccine’s. With all of the hoopla surrounding the JM phenomena, people seem to forget that vaccine or no vaccine, children with autism are here and they need interventions, educations, and a whole host of services. By hyping up Jenny and her vaccine/diet/whole host of other “cures”, tried and true autism interventions are left out of the story. For instance, Applied Behavior Analysis is research based using peer reviewed empirical data and shown to have the biggest impact on individuals with autism than any other method. Also lost in the hype is the fact that JM’s son received 40 hours a week of intensive ABA from the Lovaas clinic at UCLA, the best of the best. Where is that in the story? It is hard work on the part of the child, the family, and the therapists, but it is very, very effective.
Excellent letter; have you sent it via her program ideas at her website?
Pingback: A letter to Oprah « Blue Lyon
Well said! I hope she see your letter!
Pingback: Open letter to Oprah | The Good Atheist
@nas
The “doctor” that you refer to in your dismissive and condescending comment is none other than Andrew Wakefield, who in his 1998 study condemning the established scientific protocol for vaccinations also suggested the spacing out of the administration of vaccinations. Yes, that was his recommendation from that study. We know now that that study was debunked at every level, and Wakefield himself faces sanctions including the loss of his license.
In other words, you can call him a quack.
I repeat: There is not one scintilla of evidence to support what Jenny McCarthy advocates, contrasted to the growing evidence that supports the fact that her position is detrimental to the lives of our children.
Here is the study supported by Jennie McCarthy.
http://www.generationrescue.org/survey.html
“I can’t count how many times she has stated SHE IS NOT ANTI-VACCINATION! ”
yes but it comes off very much like a person who starts their sentence with “I am not sexist I just feel women shouldn’t be police officers” or “I am not racist I just feel black people are less intelligent”
Just because you prefix your sexist/racist comment with a statement saying you are not does not make it true, just because jenny starts off saying “I am not anti-vaccine” does not stop her spewing every anti-vaccine nonsense she comes across with the effect of reducing vaccination rates.
If she is not anti-vaccine then she sure as hell has the same effect (to a greater degree) of those who are.
Murdats,
Point of order. There are average IQ differences across cultures. Now, one there are many reasons one can advance to explain the disparity, and many caveats to add to ensure that this fact doesn’t get taken or used the wrong way, but I don’t know if it makes one racist.
Adam,
Intelligence is a poorly defined concept and IQ tests are notoriously flawed, which is why any discussion of race and intelligence is dangerous. Not to mention race itself (in terms of genetic components) is quite controversial.
Either way, we are getting off-topic…
Hi. Great letter. There’s a typo at the very end though – “yours turly” instead of “yours truly.”
I am a special education resource teacher. I’ve worked with several parents of students on the autism spectrum. One parent insisted that vaccinations caused her son’s autism. This parent had told me she’d been doing heroin and coke while she was pregnant with her child. She told me about her belief about vaccinations and her drug use in practically the same breath. For some reason she didn’t seem to see that her drug use could have caused all sorts of problems for her son.
Your letter is great! I hope Oprah reads it.
ouch now I am a thread troll. You’re saying that Heroin and Coke use were more likely the cause of the autism? I am not sure you would even want to say that????
sorry i am perceiving most of these supportive commenters as illiterate as they claim Jennie McCarthy is.
To me that just proves there are questions unanswered. Do we thing Merck is any more reliable then AIG? both big businesses built to make money. Not too concerned or pushed to be concerned by anyone to be ethical.
Er reading this comment over, I believe that the author is actually making a statement about how this parent thought vaccines more harmful than her drug addiction, and never once gave a thought to the harm she very well could have been inflicting her unborn child. I’m afraid your eagerness to attack anyone whose opinion is different than your own is making you a less trustworthy source of information, you may want to be careful of this. I say this as a person with a sibling with Asperger’s who hasn’t yet gotten enough information to choose a side, as I am seeing opinions and insults, and no references to back them up. Which really is to be expected in the comments section :-)
If the shoe fits!
Indeed, you are a thread troll.
There is a website outlining why McCarthy is wrong: http://www.stopjenny.com. For some reason, these facts get ignored over the claim that McCarthy’s kid is cured. We haven’t seen evidence that her kid is cured though, and he is home schooled.
Why does she get away with this????
His own grandmother says mommy McCarthy is not being honest, but Oprah is giving her a show anyways. So, McCarthy can also give misguided information about fruit juice being a “sugar substitute” even though it contains fructose JUST LIKE the fructose used in the corn syrup she is trying to avoid. McCarthy is clueless, and this makes her advice not only wrong, but dangerous.
generation rescue feeds McCarthy her misinformation, and she is the front for this unethical group. They both need to be exposed and stopped. Oprah always ignores the evidence in favor of crazy claims-look at the platform she gave Suzanne Sommers too. It is time she stop doing that, and start learning why these people are wrong and stop putting her fans at risk of following dangerous and wrong advice.
Fructose isn’t the same as high fructose corn syrup.
Vaccines are as green as they possibly could ever get, and you get more dangerous antigens and “toxins” in your body just by just breathing normally every day. Spacing them out (there is no evidence that there is any good reason they should be spaced out) only causes children to be left open longer to harm from the diseases vaccines need to prevent. Vaccines contain less antigens than the diseases, so therefore vaccines pose less of a burden to the immune system (see the vaccine page on stopjenny.com). McCarthy and generation are simply either ignorant or deceitful when they talk about vaccines. If McCarthy isn’t “agains” vaccines and is not “antivaccine”, then she needs to stop lying about them and learn the facts instead of listening to Handley and repeating everything that is completely false about vaccines. People are antivaccine if they base their decisions on lies.
Is this false?
http://www.generationrescue.org/vaccine_information/vaccine-ingredients-possible-adverse.htm
One of these vaccines has sorbitol in it which I am extremely allergic to. I wouldn’t want it unless teh sorbitol was removed.
I’m vaccinated but I don’t think anyone here has read about the opposition.
Bingo! You’re vaccinated. You’re still here. YOU received all the ingredients, including the sorbitol.
The “opposition” is not based on ANY scientific grounds– just a bunch of conspiracy nuts. All the studies you are citing have been debunked as vaild scientific studies.
Pretty much everything posted over at Generation Woo is nothing but quackery.
Excellent letter!!!! Hope you’ve sent it? If you’ve not, please do so.
—————————————————————-
http://gospelcentre.wordpress.com/
The “doctors” that McCarthy listens to are not representative of the majority of ethical doctors that use evidence (kids are not cured of autism) rather than unproven anecdotes as the basis of their practices. Dr. Jay Gordon also claims to cure ADD with questionable methods. Handley, the head of generation rescue, is no better. The DAN doctors claim to cure autism with chelation, but haven’t shown anyone one actual case of a cured child, but still they charge for this dangerous treatment that has actually killed some children.
http://autismdiva.blogspot.com/2007/08/dan-doctor-charged-in-chelation-death.html
So, McCarthy does listen to some doctors, but not the kind that don’t profit from claiming vaccines caused autism.
As an Aspie and a self-advocate, I want to thank you for this articulate letter.
Hi, I found you today in the list of fastest growing WordPress blogs, and I’m very glad I came to see you. Your writing is so simple and heartfelt, and what you addressed to Oprah was wonderfully sensitive and not blaming. Don’t stop baking bread, but do keep blogging!
Former San Franciscan, now a decade in Portland, OR, which also is beautiful and home to great food and wonderful readers.
Donna Cunningham, http://skywriter.wordpress.com
Many thanks for a much-needed, both concise, correct and warm-hearted letter. Let’s spread the word, so Oprah can not ignored it. Hopefully.